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Torture is sitting in the car with Chris as he listens to the same Neil Diamond song over and over and over in an attempt to memorize the words for karaoke tonight.
My friend Ashleigh moved to town from DC about a month ago and I couldn’t be happier about it :)
It’s kind of strange, but even though we weren’t superclose before I moved to Seattle and I’ve made some great friends here, it’s nice to know someone who knows a bit of my former self if that makes sense.
I know I talk about DC all the time because it’s where I moved from to get here, but I really only lived there about 4 years.  I’m sure I’ve mentioned this before, but I kind of hate when people ask where I’m from because I never know how to answer; since I was 15, DC is the place I’ve spent the most time but it seems inauthentic to say I’m from there.  Two years in two high schools in two states, three years at Ball State, one year abroad, two at Mizzou, four in DC, and I’m astounded that it’s already been a year and a half in Seattle.
I don’t know how long we’ll be here or where we’ll go next, but it’s been on my mind.  One thing I do know is that I’m glad that we came here.  Now I know that I can move and adapt and make it work in a new place.  I have a better sense of myself and what I like and don’t like and I truly feel just how lucky I am to have a partner by my side to make transitions like this one easier.
Looking back at this post, I’m a little shocked at myself for making such a bold move in the face of so much uncertainty, but then again I always have been one to go all in when my mind’s made up.  We had exactly four weeks from the day I said “yes” to this job to the day we started our long drive across the country.
This is getting long.  I guess what I’m trying to say is that starting in a new place is not always easy and it’s not always fun, but I’m glad that I’ve experienced both the good and the bad of doing so.  There are too many exciting possibilities not to try something once…you never know what could happen!
"I don’t know when I became an old man, but I certainly became an old man."
Chris, after shouting at some kids for their lack of safety in driving.
people who love to clean.
"…choose your mate carefully because that is the most important career decision you will make."

Elsa Walsh, in this article.

interesting read.  not sure if i can fully appreciate everything she’s saying because i’ve no children, but if sandberg says career is everything and walsh says family is everything, there’s got to be something in the middle, yes?

My wife just peed on me
three years ago today i married my perfect partner on a sunny Virginia day.  still the best party i’ve ever been to.
happy anniversary, Chris.
xxx
Living on the Edge: pushed off the couch by my dog and the bed by my husband
the rudeness.
Saturday night plans
Poor Chris. He doesn’t have a closet or even a whole spare bedroom for his shoes so he has to put them in the living room.
PRO TIP: NEVER SEND YOUR HUSBAND TO THE GROCERY STORE UNATTENDED.
apparently Chris calls this look nerd bait.
Clark, i mean Chris.